Are you were you want to be with your life at the moment ? Are you happy? Complacent ?Tired? Stressed?
Recently I have been approached by friends and acquaintances about direction in life. Little did they know I myself was questioning everything within myself and my current situation. I gave the perception that I knew what I was doing. What can I say , confidence is deceiving.
The only advise I could give is the advice I knew I needed to hear everyday to keep me going . Recently , My father passed away. I don't talk about it and many find it strange. This was a huge wakeup call for me and Ill explain why .
It made me realize the average statement "life is short" is true, its fucking short. My dad passed away from something he never had trouble with. He died from several heart attacks that put him into a comma . The way I see it is We put so much emphasize on many things that feel worth it and forget to pay attention to other things feel as if its not. For example, "Friends" & "Significant others" . I think this is very much time consuming .
Let me elaborate about "Friends" more like "Fake Friends" the ones who only need you when they need you. When they only show concern because they feel as if they need to because deep down they are soon to be requesting something in return. In this world you don't need many friends. Let go of those toxic friendships that only drain you. Cherish the good times but just like relationships some friendships are not worth keeping. However, at times it is our own fault for the way they treat us. WE ALLOW IT. We allow them to mistreat, direspect and be taken advantage. At my age now I have let go of 3 friendships. All three were friends who I trusted and would bend over backwards, It wasn't easy, but it was fair to me. As I look back now I am able to give more of me to those friends who truly deserve it. Its nice to know that the love and friendship is real and not exhausting .
Relationships are a hit and miss. BUT there are some where you're either stupid or insane.to even consider 1. thats its going to work out 2. he/she will change. Ive been pretty stupid in selecting the MR. or I kind of like to put it as they played me pretty fckn good lol.Again it takes two and the blame can't be pinned on only one person.
Theres different types of females.
1. The Binger- she gets with whatever guy gives her the slightest affection/attention. No morals, no preferences.
2. The hopeless romantic- the one who is willing to wait for him to change. Run now, they won't change.
3. Bossy- Demanding, men might like the confidence but no man wants to feel like someones 5 year old child.
4. The player- Believes that this will land the man.However, not always. Men are lazy. They will only play for so long and they will show you the door before you can even sink his vessel.
Last but not least…
5. The breakup chick- She has not a care in the world now, she is wild and free and she is acting wild and free.
To be continued…..
